Daily Archives: January 12, 2017

The Ugly Chair

As I type this, I’m sitting in the ugly chair.  The chair arrived in our living room as a practical joke over a month ago, and we’re going to get rid of it.  Really.  Probably soon.

…but it’s so comfy.

My husband brought it home because his parents were throwing it out (they wanted to get it out of their garage.  It has been living there instead of in their house because it is so very ugly).  He put it in our living room as a joke, and when I got home I did find it very funny.  It doesn’t match our living room furniture at all, and if it was ever in style (which I doubt), it probably peaked in around 1984.  Ha ha, very funny Andy, now get that chair outta here.

Except then I made the horrible mistake of sitting in the chair.

I would show you a picture of this chair, but I can’t do that because I am smart enough to know that the manufacturer probably made more than one.  There is someone on the internet somewhere in the world who has this chair.  Or someone’s very sweet Great-Aunt Nellie has this chair, and they would be offended if I besmirched their Great-Aunt Nellie’s taste.  Therefore, no picture of the chair.

I will tell you, though, that it is a slate blue recliner with brown wooden arms.  There is a weird stitching design on it that is tough to describe, but personally I think it looks like hundreds of hot dogs – little Barbie-sized hot dogs.  The stuffing in the chair is yellow.  I know this because there are a few places where it is peeking out around the hot dogs.

THIS CHAIR IS UGLY (no offense to your Great-Aunt Nellie).

I tried thinking of ways to make it less ugly.  There are so slip covers that would cover this odd shape, and having the chair reupholstered would cost way more than it’s worth.  Finally I decided to buy a throw blanket to try to distract from the chair’s, um, essence.  I thought if I could make it look more normal, maybe it could stay.  My new throw is very comfy and soft, but it didn’t do much for the chair.  It’s like trying to dress up an ostrich.  No matter what you put on it, it’s going to look ridiculous.

Now we’re entering dangerous territory.  We put the chair in a perfect corner of the room “just until we get rid of it.”  We brought over a lamp to give extra light “only until we get rid of it.”  Andy told me he’s bringing up an extra end table to put next to it “so that I can put my coffee there.  You know, just until we get rid of it.”

Y’all, I am seriously concerned that WE MIGHT KEEP THIS CHAIR.

Andy had one of his friends over the other day, and I almost apologized: “I am sorry about the chair in our living room…it was a practical joke that has gone awry.”  Then I thought that possibly the only thing weirder than having an ugly chair is bringing attention to the fact that yes, we know the chair is ugly, we both say we’re getting rid of it, but we both secretly love it.

Eh, it’s not like I was ever going to be in Better Homes and Gardens anyway.  Who cares if my living room looks a little bizarre?  The chair is, uh, a statement piece.  YES – a statement piece.  I’m not sure what the statement is, though…possibly “life was better in the eighties” or  “don’t conform to modern societal trends” or “eat more hot dogs.”  I guess it can be interpreted in a number of ways.  What a deep chair.

The chair can be a boost to my self-esteem, too.  When I look in the mirror and feel ugly, I can think, “Yes, but I’m not as ugly as that horrible chair.”  Then I can walk downstairs, look at the chair, and laugh.  Then I’ll feel better, because everyone knows that laughing is healthy.  This is a medicinal chair.

Have I made enough justifications yet?  Can I keep the chair?  (Better Homes and Gardens editors need not comment).

Excuse me while I take a nap in this comfy thing.


Hectic

So today has been a bit of a busy day.  I went and worked out my fifteen minutes then went to the church to do the food pantry for the month.  That went really smoothly today but I had to leave early to go to an appointment with my oldest.  Then we ate lunch at Amerigo’s in Flowood and enjoyed some pasta.  Then went to the grocery store to shot for the weekend and all that.

My oldest leaves this weekend to go back to school.  She says she is looking forward to it just like I am looking forward to my school starting.  She is fully into her culinary curriculum now so things will be easier and harder at the same time–she’ll likely enjoy herself more in these classes but they will be very performance-based and stressful.

I got my other interview subject to email me back so I am excited about that.  I’m going to try to get it in to Creative Nonfiction and see if they will be interested.  If not I’ll try selling it locally. I shouldn’t have too much trouble.

I’ve felt really well today but I am ready to just be home for a little while and sit and read.   I’m going to finish my Neil Gaiman book soon and start on Carrie Fisher’s.  I’m looking forward to that.

 

 

 


…In Which I Try Something Altogether New And Different

My recent posts have been lame and few.

Depression is largely to blame.  So is pain.  I wouldn’t go so far as to chalk my depression up to pain, as I’ve been suffering from depression literally all my life; but it sure is hard to get un-depressed when struggling in the grasp of unremitting pain.

I went to see an orthopedist about my shoulder.  He seemed like a decent sort.  I was struck dizzy by the splendor of his haberdashery.  His colors were straight out of the last Laura Ashley paint swatch book I consulted for a vintage room re-do.  

I had to drag myself away from admiring the knife creases on his shirt sleeves and trousers, the precise correctness of the diagonal striped tie….

The shoulder.  Oh yes.

It feels like how your shoulder feels after a **really good** flu shot.  You know, the way you slink around trying real hard not to bump into anything, and of course you do, because you always do, except you don’t normally notice it because your deltoid muscle is normally not all hot and red and swollen and sore.

You try to move your sore shoulder around, because you’ve heard that moving it around helps…with, oh, something.  I can’t remember.  The only thing that helps is Time.  Tincture of Time, that great healer.

So it goes with my shoulder.  It’s been hurting for several months.  I’ve given it gallons of Tincture of Time, to no effect.  In fact, it’s getting worse.

So it was that I came to visit Dr. Haberdashery on Friday last.  He took no x-ray, but put me through a rigorous demonstration of my range of motion, marveling at my flexibility (quite!).  I yelped and complained of pain, but forced my upper extremities into all sorts of contortions–in order to prove, I suppose, that I’m not…something.  I have a morbid fear of being thought a fake.  I believe this comes from having been accused of faking various things like asthma, which I got from inhaling my mother’s cigarettes since before I was born.  So now I feel like I have to demonstrate how hard I’m trying, to show how rigorously I’m adhering to my physical therapy regimen…which, in truth, I’m not really, because I’m simply hyperflexible.  I have abnormal collagen.  I can pop my shoulder right out of its socket!  

The diagnosis (sans x-rays) is arthritis.  The treatment: increase my celecoxib for a couple of weeks; then if no improvement, consider steroid injection.  If no relief with that, consider surgery to “decompress” the joint by grinding off the bone spurs.  Dr. H quoted the numbers: 80% get relief from this surgery, 20% don’t.  Better than back surgery, but still more risk than I’m willing to take at this point.

After my bout of calisthenics in the way of physical examination, my shoulder started feeling like a tensely  swollen and exquisitely tender softball.  Getting dressed/undressed is a new kind of challenge.  I quickly learned that pullovers are not a good idea.  I got trapped with a sweatshirt over my head and no way to get further in or indeed further out!  

Just because I needed more pain, something in my thoracic spine went “pop”a couple of days ago, and now it hurts to cough, or breathe, or move, or do anything….

So now, if you include my wrist that needs surgery (I do), I have three active areas of acute pain on top of my entire spine and the rest of my joints, which provide a kind of basso continuo for the baroque dance that is my Pain Body.  

So, did Dr. Haberdashery send me away with any pharmacologic relief?  Aw, come on…you know the answer!  Of course not.  We’re in a national epidemic of…something.  No, pain medication is no longer a menu item–not that it has been, not for many years, for me anyway.  Maybe it’s the brain diagnoses.  My experience has been that I’ve had to beg for pain meds, even tramadol.  This guy had “Please don’t even ask” written large all over his vintage green shirt.  I didn’t ask.

Up in a high cabinet, in a box with teas that I use infrequently, are a couple of packets of Mitrogyna Speciosa, also known as Kratom or Ketem.  It’s an herb that teeters on the brink of making the DEA Schedule I list. In fact, it was scheduled to be scheduled this past December.  In an unprecedented move, tens of thousands of people wrote to the DEA requesting that Kratom be saved from the list, that it not be torn away from law-abiding Americans who want to stay law-abiding and not have to scramble around in the darkness of the black market to get their medicine.  Sound familiar?   

Why does the DEA want to sequester Kratom?  Is it really as bad as heroin or (gasp!) cannabis? 

Well, not really.  In fact, Kratom simulates mu receptors, which is what opioid medicines do.  It’s a mild pain medicine, rarely results in addiction, and is extremely useful in helping opioid addicts to detox with hardly any withdrawal symptoms.  

We can conjecture why Big Pharma wants Kratom off the market.  With such valuable properties, people might not need a whole subset of expensive pharmaceuticals–anything from naloxone, which has risen in price some 1,000% (yes, that’s right) since the CDC’s initial report and the subsequent media blast about opioid epidemic, and the very real heroin epidemic that spits out scores of overdose victims daily–to fentanyl patches, to the drugs used by the “recovery” industry: buprenorphine and Suboxone being the contenders here.

Kratom can contend with the contenders in a number of contexts.  I’m not an expert–the opposite–so please fill me in, in the comments.  I’m just here to report my personal experience.

Which is: I was going mad with pain.  I had bought some sample-size packets of Kratom powder.  I took some.  I felt better.  Much, much better.  Still painful, but bearable.  Liveable.  Much better.

I’ve been afraid to try the Kratom because of fear of side effects.  The chief side effect is nausea and vomiting.  This is hailed by Kratom users as a built-in overdose preventer:  If you take too much, you puke and that’s that.  I’m not 100% convinced of that, but I have a lot of research to do, now that I’ve dipped my toes in the green waters of Kratom and lived to feel better.

And what about my legal medical cannabis?  Isn’t that supposed to be a panacea?  Why do I need something else?

Let me tell you, if I were to take cannabis sufficient to blot out this pain, I would be blotted out myself!  I do medicate at night very heavily, using a powerful coconut oil infusion that I’ve baked up into brownies…and what brownies they are!!!  Knockout drops.  If I got that medicated in the daytime I wouldn’t be able to stand up.

Which brings me to another Kratom advantage.  In low doses it’s a stimulant.  In high doses it’s a sedative.  Now, I haven’t found any definition as to what constitutes a “low” or a “high” dose.  I suppose it’s individual.  I started out with a gram yesterday, got some pain relief with that, and increased my dose to 1.5 grams today.  Better pain relief, felt a little bit high but clear and alert.  Decent!  Tomorrow I might try 2 grams.  

Have you tried Kratom?  What was your experience?


To Send or Not to Send? (A Self-Indulgent Fantasy!)

  “Sometimes a fantasy is all you need…”   Sometimes a Fantasy by Billy Joel is from the seminal album Glass Houses. I must have listened to that album hundreds of times in the 1970s!   Before I get into the nitty gritty, I wrote last week I’d update you about working with the editors on my … Continue reading To Send or Not to Send? (A Self-Indulgent Fantasy!)